This Is Why She Is Guarded

• She is guarded because she fears that you could possibly be that person who has the ability to break down all of the walls that she has worked so hard and for so long around her own heart. You will be able to make her want to expose her deepest insecurities.
• She is guarded because she is actually happy when she around you. She will wander how long this even will last, because the past has only shown her that happiness just simply does not ever last for very long at all. 
• She is guarded because she fears heartbreak and she knows that one day, you will hurt her just like every person has.
• She is guarded because she fears falling for you, so she keeps her guard up and refuses to let you in too much. She will pull away in an attempt to not get emotionally attached to you ★

♡ Ben Perry ♡

Life has taught her some extremely hard lessons. Life has shown her that people will eventually let you down. So instead of getting her hopes up with you, she will start to distance herself. When she does start to pull away from you, you might feel upset because yesterday you thought everything seemed fine and then all of a sudden she does not show up as she had intended or planned on doing. You might send her text messages that are not very nice, things that you might not even mean in that specific moment, but you do so out of your own anger, hurt, confusion or frustration. You will most likely also assume or accuse that she is playing mind games or just "games" in general with you....

If this is the case..... Ben, take a deep breath at the end of this sentence………………..                     and then continue reading...……………………

She knows that in time, you will give up on her, but deep inside of her heart of hearts, she knows that it is her fear that is driving her throughout life. She wants you to reveal the real person, the real her.
She wants you to break down her walls, she wants you to tell her how you feel, she wants you to teach her vulnerability, but most of all..... One day, she hopes to have something REAL, to be able to meet that one guy that makes her completely forget about everyone else before and just let the dice roll.........

So do not walk away or give up on her just yet 🎔