" You are much stronger than you give yourself credit for..."
Remember when you were crying into your pillow and you did not think that things would get better? ...Well, it did.
Remember when you did not think that you could live without that person in your life?
...Well, you are still breathing.
Remember when you simply wanted to give up and just wither away because life is not fair at all?
...Well, you are still breathing.
Even if you have not made it through completely yet, I believe that you are on your way. Maybe you are still fighting through all of the hard times and the battles that just never quite seem to ever end. Maybe you are still working on improving yourself and simply trying to figure everything out. Maybe you are still trying to quiet the voices that are possibly inside of your head and trying to pick yourself back up.- All of these things are perfectly fine because I have faith that you WILL make it.
Sometimes it might feel like you have lost it all... Sometimes it might feel like you will just never really amount to much of anything or that you will even get lost within the storm of life along the way, but you will make it. You just have to keep digging and I personally know that it is so hard. I know that it is so much easier to 'throw in the towel' and just give up, but when you do that and you surrender to life - The only person that you are really hurting is yourself.
It is hard... It is challenging and it is not always fair, but you just need to stick with it. You need to believe in yourself, even if nobody else is there to cheer you on. You need to be your own biggest support system because when you are crying into your pillow at night, you are the only one that can get you up the next morning. When you are crying in the bathroom, you are the only one that can wipe away your tears. When you are falling apart completely, you have to be the glue to stick yourself back together.
As much as most bad things might seem as if it could very well be the end of the world, I want you to keeping mind that they are definitely not. You have so much good left in your life; So many more firsts, accomplishments and personal victories. You will find a new love, you will find a new job and you will have friendships with the people who genuinely care about you; You will be healthy. You will be alright - As long as you allow yourself to be.
It is okay to feel sad...
just do not allow that sadness to consume you and overtake your life.
You cannot punish yourself forever for your mistakes and you should not punish yourself forever for your mistakes, so stop punishing yourself over what you could or should have done better. Everybody struggles in some aspect of life. Everyone has their own personal battles that they are personally fighting and everybody needs somebody to count on to help them be able to look forward to tomorrow, so do not be afraid to ask for help if you cannot do it on your own.
Life is a constant battle between what we want in the moment and what we should be doing. It is a constant battle between loving and learning. It is a constant journey to discover who each one of us are, because we are all changing, as well as our circumstances.
Do not let anybody make you feel as if you are weak, like you are incapable or like you are not tough because you are... You just have to believe it yourself.
You are so much stronger than you give yourself credit for. Do not forget how much that you have already survived and use that as the motivation to keep going...
Do Not Quit Now
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